Stirring things up!

Did you ever provoke a fight with your guy? You love getting on his nerves because that makes him so obscure and funny – “cute” so we say. No, you’re not sadistic. Just the fact that after the make up, it feels so sweet to be the conqueror- to have the feeling of power! To feel the situation is under your control – to cause a fight and then to stop it. Isn’t it just so dramatically sweet to push the edges once in a while?

I love pushing his triggers. Some may think I’m an evil witch, but I’m simply making our relationship tempered, exciting, resolute, pert.

If you intentionally get into a fight with him – you are not sick in a head (and no, you’re not just a bitch). Scientists say that a healthy relationship is a relationship where there are arguments, and any argument needs a solution, right? That takes out our negative energy and brings us closer.

It’s a stir.

I love irritating him. The art of irritation can, in fact, be just as valuable as the art of persuasion. How so? Let’s start with the problem: people are good liars and actors… up to a point. You want the inner?

Push his buttons.

Think of it this way. Adversity doesn’t primarily build character—it reveals it… Therefore, by putting someone under pressure or in an adverse situation, you can pull back the covers and get a glimpse of what’s in store a few weeks or months down the line.

I’m sure there is a little vixen inside all of us, ladies. After all, sex is best after some hyper fight. It is so much more passionate and revealing when mixed with anger or jealousy.

I am aware that pushing his buttons can be dangerous. So in order to cause an intended quarrel with your beloved half and then to stop it at the right moment you must know his limits and where the delicate ‘stop line’ begins.

Yes, make fun of him, get into quarrels, tell him what you want, complain, bitch but never ever go “there”. – Here is an example of what not to say. Or say it and your healthy relationship is over. Do not talk about other men with him especially your ex’s, his boss or his buddies.

Especially in bed. Especially after sex. And please, in the end don’t say anything like “His was so big! But don’t worry, honey, size doesn’t matter.”

P.S. Guys also irritate us. A friend of mine complains that her bf is into porn. Ever wondered why some men are addicted to porn? Whether you choose to hate or love the fact that he just has to watch porn – apparently, there is a lesson I learned from those seemingly unreal porn stars – I unashamedly enjoy it!

And the last, but not the least!

Todays quote of the day is:

Be daring, be different, be impractical, be anything that will assert integrity of purpose and imaginative vision against the play-it-safers, the creatures of the commonplace, the slaves of the ordinary.”

-Сecil Beaton

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