Men - hunting is a very special elite kind of sport among women. Even golf and horse riding lose their pathos and sophistication next to it. In this hunt there are three simple elements: “v” – victim, “w” – woman and the most important one – “d” – desire.

This kind of activity keeps you in a good shape and helps you stay in a positive frame of mind for many years. But being a real Venus and Artemis at the same time is hard work.

Factors, such as weak self - restrain and lack of knowledge of the way to handle the male kind may become more complex when completing the mission. But nevertheless, it is time to start the season.

If you clicked “read more” and reading this it means you really are sure to get yourself a lover or you are simply curious… well just like good old Freud said, sometimes cigar can mean just a cigar.

If I start convincing you not to do it, it will have just as same effect as “Smoking kills” on a pack of cigarettes opened by inveterate smoker. Anyways, whatever your reason is to get yourself a lover while having a bf or even a hubby, I suggest you think clearly and define your reason. It might seem a bit offensive to some males to compare them with dogs, but I’m sorry this way it’s easy to make examples.

When you get yourself a dog/puppy you have a reason. Some of you want to feel secure, others want to get a handsome and unusual breed to make others exclaim how cool your dog is, or how cute it looks in your purse, and finally some of you want to get themselves a puppy to have someone to whom you could give all of your unclaimed love and unrealized tenderness.

Amazing analogy, isn’t it!

I divide lovers to three categories. Sure, there are plenty more, but there are three main types of lovers we may end up with: sex lovers, fellowship lovers and virtual lovers, indeed.

Sex Lovers

A friend of mine is married to an outgoing guy. He’s handsome, touchy, feely, he cooks breakfast and does his own laundry and even gives her massages when she comes home tired from work, he’s an excellent father of their child but when it comes down to sex he’s absolute “0”. Another friend of mine says her husband doesn’t like kissing, and you know for women it is a matter of great importance. Even some scientists proved that for women it is important to have a good kisser in order to balance the hormones. Poor women, what are they supposed to do? Hormones kill all the leftovers of values and you end up having a lover. Very often girls don’t even care if their lover is married or not.

With this type of guy you may meet periodically with no obligations whatsoever. Infatuation doesn’t always have to be the case, for that you have another object.

Advantages: It doesn’t take much to find a lover for sex. They are everywhere: at work, in the club, at the football game or a party at your best friend’s house.

Disadvantages: Soon, you will realize that orgasm without even a slight feeling of love is no good. And you can’t fall in love with him – he’s not as intelligent as your Alex, or you just don’t want to, cause he’s married and has three kids. You don’t want that, no!

Fellowship Lovers

I know one other couple, in which the husband is sex giant but his wife has nothing to talk about with him. She’s sick of football and his ugly car. She so wanted to go to the theatre or talk about Haruki Murakami’s last masterpiece, or simply talk about the good and the evil. Her husband either doesn’t feel like it or simply is not capable. By the way, some other scientists found out that a big education gap between the lovers may cause more misunderstanding and disrespect of one to another.

And there he comes! He comes as a friend, just a buddy from work, he just thinks the way you do and you can talk to him forever about everything or nothing. Basically, there is no need for sex.

You get something better than sex. You will discuss male psychology and put your bf or a husband as an example. You will get overemotional while talking about karma, or Robert Kyiosaki or Cohen brothers’ last movie. You will get intellectual sex with double orgasm.

Advantages: Having a fellow is always good; it is even nicer to have him from the “enemy camp”.

Disadvantages: You may fall in love with him right away and soon your fellow will become the guy from the first category and the sensations won’t be as super as before.

The Virtual Lover

It is the safest kind on one hand. Experienced women choose this one when they are bored. With a help of rapid female fantasy and high technologies all of the above and even more you will get in one set through chat. And plus, your integrity will be clean, because you will justify yourself by thinking it was innocent flirt with sending some photos and sms. Virtual communication is so alluring because you can be much more open and even play someone else; moreover you hide what you want to hide.

Advantages: First – it’s not cheating. Second – it doesn’t take much effort.

Disadvantages: Soon you will want to meet him and see what he’s like in reality. Your dreams of the coolest guy will be ruined in most of the cases. He will turn out to be not as sociable, not as attractive, etc. 90% out of 100% they are geeks that don’t know how to handle themselves with ladies.

Ladies, so before doing the first step going out on a hunt, going online or dialing his number think of your own guy. Think well. May be you can actually fix your relationship crisis and put effort not somewhere else but there within the problem. So, actually smoking is bad for you.

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