Inspired by “fuck” conversation last Saturday, which is a very delicate subject.
All of us, living in a fast growing temper of big cities are busy. We go to work, go to college full time, or have kids to take care of. There are plenty of things to do. When crazy week days are over we have yoga or tango classes, and shopping to do aside the chorus, french classes and getting a good sleep.
When is there time for sex?
The right answer would be – there is always time for sex. But the stress and busyness lead some couples to pencil their intimacy. It is logical, simple and hot to know that your schedule after works has a mark “Ryan 8 pm”.
It is exciting to feel the anticipation, but on the other hand do we feel it is comfortable to set up our special moments with an important person for us on a basis of a scheduled task? It seems awkward to plan it, it is out of style, especially for femme-fatale like me, but even when sex is spontaneous, in every woman’s head it is always planned. (wink!)
Sometimes it can even feel pressured, says a friend of mine Lara. I agree it is more natural to be spontaneous. But put it this way, if you have business meetings, classes, and spa (that you need in order for your date to be really hot), and lots of other “list – to – do” things it gets to the point when you start scheduling everything. Each action requires time and effort.
After talking to my girlfriends last night we came up with this conclusion.
So, really when saying “Hey, I’m meeting you over at my place to show you something really fantastic, make sure you’re not busy for a couple of hours. So, do you want to come over?” is basically planning without saying “Do you want to have sex this Thursday around afternoon? Ok, than don’t forget to write it down in your planner.”
The key to having planned sex is never making the plans out loud! Well, this one – write it down!
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